Summary
Bruno Clavier: Children who want to heal their parents
"How are my parents?" Children ask themselves this question all the time. Behind their apparent indifference is a constant vigilance, an indelible concern for others. Without basic supports, their life could become difficult, even endangered. When everything is in order, basic security allows them to live a happy life. When it is not so, when the environment is fragile and unstable, children, instead of taking care of themselves, spend time trying to save their life efforts: to keep their parents or adoptive parents, or some other family members who take care of them. , in good condition at any price. It is an absolute priority. They lose energy and health in the desire to heal those needy Others.
What is the deep source of this behavior? Why do children endure so much secret, hidden suffering from their environment? The essential motivation is love. The child's unconditional, immeasurable love for their parents, for all those who deal with them, good or bad, who give them a lot of attention or neglect them, who are gentle with them or abuse them. Regardless of everything, whatever happens, the children love them and want to heal them."
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